Starting the New Year with a ‘Bang’. What’s on your Sexy Bucket List?

30 Dec

My second blog post, I hope you enjoy! Read to the end and don’t forget to get your printable gift

We made it! We are here. After a year or so of finally being able to touch the skin of lovers and release fears held after that rather strange little Covid era we experienced, we have made it.

It’s a time of year to reflect on what was - and focus on what will be. To get excited about all that life can offer.

A few years ago I was in the company of a quite wonderful man - he comes to mind as his thirst for life was infectious and in our meeting, he told me that he was ticking off items from his bucket list. Life long dreams amidst sweet curiosities were what filled the page.

And this got me to thinking, as a purveyor of all things sexual and sexy; Wouldn’t it be fabulous to create a sexy bucket list!

Those desires and experiences we have a deep calling to pursue. Kinks or fetishes that want our attention. People we have enjoyed from afar but haven’t yet organised a date with. Our sexual enjoyment is vital to our wellbeing and is so enhanced when we prioritise it and make it fun.

Looking for inspiration? I’ve got you!

Tantra -

Feeling intimately connected to ourselves and to the people we are close to is surely the greatest thing.

What is tantra? “Tantric sex is a method of sexual intercourse that aims to achieve mindfulness and deep connection for its participants through breathwork, prolonged eye contact, embraces, massage, and slow, deliberate intercourse. Tantric sex is one component of tantra (“weave” in Sanskrit), a spiritual belief system from India that focuses on mind-body connections. The goal of tantric sex is to move sexual energy between participants to facilitate healing, transformation, and spiritual growth.” Further reading…”

Role Play -

Whatever fantasy you want to explore, get the clothing together, set the scene and commit to the characters. You can set a rough outline of how you would like it to go. At first, it can feel almost a little too out of character, but stick with it and let it flow. I promise it will be worth it. You can role play as having just met someone on a night out - creating a wild whirlwind romance. You could involve uniforms to play characters. Whatever you decide, it is guaranteed to be a lot of fun!

Sex in public -

The idea of being caught is quite sexy. And if the thought excites, then absolutely, my loves, go for it. Of course, be mindful of the laws of where you are as I don’t want to be encouraging you to get arrested! A way around this is to choose to play somewhere you can still be concealed - somewhere risky, but not so much so. My own personal favourite, is a balcony (sweet memories). You could also take to the natural environment - a secluded spot by a stream (also a favourite) or a secret cove (another fave). It can be spontaneously sexy or something pre planned with your favourite person. Good luck!

Watch porn together -

If something really turns you on, why not share that while you’re in the bedroom. I’ve found some of my favourite porn to watch while with my playmates. Some of which you can see here. Seriously very good and really intoxicates the mood. I have created bespoke content for sumptuous consumption by my clients (and their partners) - A huge turn on pre and post playdate!

Phone / Face Time sex -

This one is especially good for those with lovers they are away from at times. And as a way to build intimacy in those earlier days of a relationship. Someone you are comfortable with and feel able to be completely sexy with. Let it flow, show off and enjoy. Helpful tip from your friendly, neighbourhood busty, bodacious woman: some good lighting will help hugely. And involving toys, lubrication and oil will ramp up the heat. Talk dirty to each other. Tell them what you want and what you like. Relax and enjoy. Wildly.

Fetish / Kink exploration -

If you’re aware that your arousal likes to tease around the edges of kink and fetish, then I implore you to explore. Safely, of course. If it is something new to you, I highly recommend doing your research and seeing a professional that resonates and offers the services you are interested in. Seeing a sex worker can be a safer option for this type of play as we are adept and understand the dynamic and requirement for clear communication and consent. Those boundaries make sure everyone is having fun. As a member of the astonishingly sexy KLE collective aka KINKY London Escorts, I can assure you, there is something for everyone and it is absolutely worth sneaking a peek.

Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes -

Quite possibly the most desired of all fantasies - and we can see why! Bodies, draped upon bodies, flesh upon flesh, panting, kissing, sweat, tender touch, deep, hard, passionate, sensual, slow, erotic and never ending. Sign me up! This is absolutely a scenario I thrive in! #greedygirl I have a wonderful selection of friends you’d love to meet! I also adore playing with couples. There is no more sacred a space to be than to be the extra spice in between two people who love each other. A HUGE turn on.
The organising of such decadence can sometimes take a lot more planning than initial thoughts - the aligning of people’s diaries can’t always be assured - so, planning in advance is key.

Nuru Massage -

The slipperiest of fun! Nuru massage originated in Japan - the word “nuru” stems the Japanese word for slippery. It is a body to body, skin on skin, erotic massage where the whole body is used to slide around upon, giving much more full contact that a traditional massage. You’ll be covered, from head to toe in the gel is super slippery gel. It is made from Nori Seaweed, so completely natural and great for the skin!

To help keep you on track, please download this printable “The Sexy Bucket List” contract ;)

Thank you for reading this far… more to come next year!

Kitty Demure